The Appeal of Erotic Stories
Best Erotic stories are a kind of compulsion, really—a sweet fixation. Of course, I am not speaking about your regular Mills & Boon type of romance stories. You can get stimulated without depending on anyone. What’s more, you can appreciate it at your own time and place. For yourself, as well as for your lover, erotic stories can be extraordinary.
Getting energized is necessary to have an awesome time in bed with your partner. These stories can get you physically ready and provide inspiration for new ways of making love.
Benefits for Relationships
These stories have become guardian angels to numerous relationships on the verge of separation. Try it yourself. You may experience passionate feelings while reading them and become more accommodating and accepting of your partner. Getting hold of a decent erotic story at HarborFront Singapore is not as easy as in many other places worldwide.
It is said that too much of anything is unsafe, and this is especially true with these stories. There are so many websites focusing on erotic stories that it is easy to get lost in the quagmire of suggestive content.
Finding the Right Story
Surfing through websites is often tedious, and many stories are read before you find the right one. Because of this, I recommend getting a decent erotic story by searching for the printed version at bookstores. You can visit most bookstores around the world and find a section devoted to romance/erotica or even get assistance from the store assistants. They can direct you to the book that is precisely what you are searching for. Printed versions may also be a good alternative to reading a story online and then having to stop halfway through.
Choosing Your Level of Erotica
Next, choose the level of erotica you are after. Some may prefer stories with full hardcore detail of sexual experiences, while others may leave something to the reader’s imagination. Additionally, many enjoy allegories and indirect discussions of sex, while others prefer unfiltered descriptions. Before obtaining a story or book, try to read the summary, readers’ reviews, or a book survey of the one you are interested in. Settle on the type of erotic story that turns you on.
Would you like same-sex, heterosexual, swinger, or orgy sex? These are some factors to consider before choosing which stories will suit you best.
Exploring Various Themes
If you are unsure what works for you, you can get a book that has all these elements. Once you are more aware of what you enjoy, you can narrow it down to what you need. There are also many themes available to you. For instance, if you are into Bondage or S&M, you will find it all. Other themes include mystery, romance, thriller, horror, and science fiction. This means you don’t have to give up your love for these subjects to focus on erotica. Even if you want undeniable sensual stories, you can still get your story in various subjects, keeping you interested in erotica.
Why Do I Read Erotic Stories?
Some of us have been lucky enough to have a room of our own away from the bedroom and the dangerous-to-the-ear sounds that emanate from our parents’ room. If it doesn’t bother you to imagine your parents doing the deed—well, it does for me. Some of you may have been curious about what has been happening when your parents make those funny noises, enough to even have a peek. Not to spy on your folks, of course! But admit it, once in your libido-driven days, you gave in to the opportunity of peeking to understand those strange noises in the middle of the night.
Best Erotic Stories
Wise people say, “Curiosity kills the cat.”
Well, we don’t want to get killed nor are we cats! As young adults, we have the propensity to compare our romancing skills with colleagues, associates, and peers. At your legal age, the ethical professional person you are, it would be a shame to be caught and known as a peeping Tom. Reading online erotic stories is the solution. You may end up wondering if what you have read is true, but nevertheless, it eliminates the danger of being caught peeping in your roommate’s nighttime activities.
The Benefits of Reading Erotic Stories
We cannot discount the fact that we discover things that are possible to do, and expect that the next time you have the opportunity, you will try to do the same as described in those erotic words. By reading these types of stories, our brains are stimulated to develop neurons. It enhances our imagination and triggers our dopamine receptors. Dopamine is a brain chemical that gives you that good feeling. Yes, the same feeling you get when you release all that pent-up heat you have collected that week.
Enhancing Your Experiences
Reading erotic stories is like reading porn magazines without actually buying them. Isn’t that a good thing? You save money and still get sexually energized from the story you have read. You also get new ideas that can make your nighttime or romancing activities bloom, or let’s just say, be productive! What an exciting way to get your hormones raging! By simply reading one story, you may want to have the love of your life beside you, adding spice to the relationship. Your mate will always wonder where you get your bedroom skills.
A Healthy Expression of Female Sexuality
Most women expect their partner to have some interest in pornography, whether in films or magazines. It just seems to be accepted that men like to engage with erotic material. Yet with erotic stories for women, it seems almost frowned upon and has become a quiet, secretive practice. Erotic stories for women and sales of erotic fiction have continued to grow year-on-year. While there is a notion that women are not as sexual as men, this is just not the case. They simply use a different medium!
The Differences in Stimulation
Erotic stories for women are, for the most part, less graphic and explicit, but they are nonetheless stimulating for the women who enjoy them. The reason is that women and men are inherently different when it comes to what turns them on. Generally, men are visually stimulated. This means they are more turned on by images and are more primitive when it comes to sex. In contrast, women are audibly stimulated and are more turned on by what they hear. For women, sex is a more emotional experience.
Keeping It a Secret
So why, if reading erotic fiction is just a healthy expression of female sexuality, is it kept such a secret for so many women? It would seem there is a double standard in terms of what women expect and accept as ‘boys being boys’ and what men are prepared to accept from their wives and girlfriends in terms of reading erotic fiction. Many women feel that if their partner were to discover their choice of reading material includes erotic fiction, it would be a disaster for the relationship.
Overcoming the Double Standard
This is largely due to the fact that men do not tend to react well to their partners reading about the sexual prowess of other men, even if they are just fictional characters! They feel somehow inadequate and threatened. In an attempt to avoid this reaction or denting their man’s fragile ego, most women hide their erotic fiction from their partner rather than incorporating it into their sex life. However, this could change with the development of personalized erotic stories for women that depict the experiences and fantasies of individual couples.
Personalized Erotic Stories
A small number of professional writers have spotted a gap in the market for custom-written erotic stories that enable women to involve their partners without the risk of them feeling threatened. Women who have bought these custom-written erotic stories report that they have found that rather than their partner having their ego dented, it inflates their ego and makes them feel desired. Many men have been so excited, they have purchased custom-written stories for their women as erotic gifts.
Sharing Your Sexuality
One man who purchased a story for his wife said, “I get extremely turned on by the idea that my wife is reading sex stories about the things we do. Seeing her so turned on by revisiting our sexual experiences makes me feel great.” This development in the world of erotica has enabled women to open up to their partner and share their sexuality in a healthy way. For women who enjoy erotic fiction and no longer wish for it to be their private secret, involving your partner in a custom-written personal story is guaranteed to spice up your sex life and make him feel wanted!
My Experience
Back to my views on erotic stories. While waiting for my boat to take me to one of the Singaporean Islands, I wished to purchase an erotic book at the HarborSide. I was astonished to find that no bookstore there has these books, and the most erotic stores were like the Mills and Boon I described in the first paragraph, being romance and not erotica. I asked the sales clerks why they did not stock this bestselling category in-store and was amazed to find that in Singapore these books are looked at like pornography by the authorities.
Limited Availability
These books were only available at the few ‘sex shops’ scattered on the Island City, which the Singapore Police turn a blind eye to. Unfortunately, I found it very difficult to find erotic storybooks in Singapore.